Step fathers have no rights. How is this fair?

I am a step mother and i hope i never have to go through this,it's terrible. I feel so sorry for you and your three boy's. Hopefully one day this girl (who will never 4get you or her brothers) will come looking for you,because she sounds like she was really loved by you and the important thing is you treated her as one of your own. She will always remember you,and i dont think he is going to have it easy (His) your daughter will prob play up now cause her routine has been shattered. Just remember its NOT your fault.