Do you agree with this...It is EASY for someone to say..."I would stay with a brain damage spouse"...BUT WHEN

REALITY sets in or THEY ARE ACTUALLY IN THE TERRIBLE situation..But get this, they JUDGED my friend...and that was wrong..They said they would honor their vows (she was in her 20's and had two kids to raise)..he could not do it and the children were AFRAID of him...(she was unable to care for his needs anyway!) But it was easy for people to judge her...geez!! See went to a grief counselor who told her to white lie and say he is dead; but he is actually in a caring home...(expected to die within so many years)...His brain is basically dead....But people who have NEVER BEEN IN HER SHOES judged her but were "toooooo busy to help with the children",....Go figure..People..I do not feel she had a choice...she did what was best for her and the children...and that is what the grief counselor said also..What are your feelings.????.Please do not be sooo harsh on my friend ...She has gone through more than her share of grief and sadness..(He does not know her)...She is left to pick upthe pieces